Can I share and excerpt #2 in a post I'm planning to write in response to some comments I got on the guide to lube I wrote to Wirecutter I received feedback that I was "straightwashing" lube because the commenter presumed people with vulvas don't "need" lube. (Yes, really.) I really want to destigmatize using lube for everyone!
of course! Destigmatization is so important. If you're able to link to me, that would be great :) Also, what an odd assumption, lube is great for all the bodies!
I don’t travel with toys. The thought never crossed my mind. And I have faked orgasms and I totally love just naming the way you feel. Powerful! Thank you for this share.
Thank you for reading and replying :) I only thought to share that I travel with toys when I saw a tweet criticizing those who do which made me want to normalize it lol. Inspiration comes from all over!
And I’m glad you spoke out. Good job! I just figured people did what they want to do and it’s ok. I guess the judges are everywhere….hiding from themselves. 😉
awesome read.
thank you!
Can I share and excerpt #2 in a post I'm planning to write in response to some comments I got on the guide to lube I wrote to Wirecutter I received feedback that I was "straightwashing" lube because the commenter presumed people with vulvas don't "need" lube. (Yes, really.) I really want to destigmatize using lube for everyone!
of course! Destigmatization is so important. If you're able to link to me, that would be great :) Also, what an odd assumption, lube is great for all the bodies!
I don’t travel with toys. The thought never crossed my mind. And I have faked orgasms and I totally love just naming the way you feel. Powerful! Thank you for this share.
Thank you for reading and replying :) I only thought to share that I travel with toys when I saw a tweet criticizing those who do which made me want to normalize it lol. Inspiration comes from all over!
And I’m glad you spoke out. Good job! I just figured people did what they want to do and it’s ok. I guess the judges are everywhere….hiding from themselves. 😉
I loved reading this! Traveling with toys is something I started doing this past year because why not!!!
Exactly! As long as they aren't the kind that might get taken away, there's no reason not to